Death with Dignity, Part 3

I have never considered flipping that mythical magic switch because I was depressed

have considered flipping it…

… because I was in horrific pain.

… because I was emaciated and puking my guts out.

… because I was so weak and exhausted that I could barely lift my head off the pillow for days on end.

… because I was so weak and exhausted that I didn’t take a shower for weeks.

… because I was so weak and exhausted that all I could stomach was a single Ensure shake choked down once a day for weeks.

… because I feared being incapacitated and intubated.

… because I was terrified of suffocating.

… because I feared being put on life support against my wishes.

… because I was so weak I couldn’t open a jar of spaghetti sauce. (I just laid down and went without eating for yet another day)

… because I felt totally emasculated.

… because I felt totally useless.

… because the ability to do the things that gave my life meaning were stripped away from me.

… because I didn’t want to be a burden on anyone.

… because I saw no dignity in pointless suffering.

… I repeat: I have never entertained flipping that mythical magic switch because I was depressed.


All that said, please don’t worry about me. With the help of medical science, medical professionals, family, friends, and neighbors, I got through all the existential trials and crises above. And I still have lots of things to live for.


continue… Death with Dignity, Part 4

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